Sunday, October 16, 2011

ABUSE OF A FAMILY BY AN EX-HUSBAND AND STEP-MOM







Here's my story of Falsely accused of Child Abuse and the fact my X's wife is a Legal Secretary involved with Drafting documents from her old law office!




Reference Family Law Case # 94-17568(35)
My name is Gloria Helman. I’m a divorced Mom of twins 19 years old. I’ve been divorced since 1995. Since I’ve been divorced, I have been Verbally, Emotionally and Mentally ABUSED by my Ex-Husband and his wife Jill Epstein Parnes.
My children have been used, lied to, emotionally and mentally ABUSED by their Father to try and alienated them against me.
He has INSULTED ME in front of them saying I’m immature, retarded, I need to grow up, and lazy, etc. My kids would say the same to me a lot during the years. I kept silent and did not alienate them from their DAD. Their behavior towards me was very upsetting to me. You see I was the 1 who was their #1 FAN in school, sports, Hebrew School, etc.
I was the 1 who showed them right from wrong. I LOVED them UNCONDITIONALLY knowing it was their DAD who was BRAINWASHING them. This was very painful. NO LOVING, Caring, morally right Parent should ever go through this type of abuse from their EX-spouseor Children.
To make thing worse, my EX remarried 11 years ago. Jill's Family LOVE my kids and I’m truly Grateful. Here’s the problem. SHE has also tried to Alienate my kids from ME. She has made it her point to VOICE her opinion on ALL Matters that pertain to my kids. She has sent me e-mails over the years getting involved. She has also befriended me with people I use to be friends with at my kids school.
She has acted as an Attorney Drafting LEGAL Petitions for my EX-Husband from the Law office she works at. She drafted a Petition that accused me of CHILD ABUSE of MY SON. She even drafted an affidavit that my SON signed against me. THIS IS A CRIME. She has also written comments on Medical Bill copies that I have sent my EX of Bills he owes me money for. Bills sent to him were returned (Registered Receipt)...Never picked up.
I was NOT MARRIED to her. I was MARRIED to my EX….She has NO BUSINESS getting involved PERIOD. 
As of today, after almost 15 years and over 6 Attorneys, MY CASE is NOT SETTLED.
ANOTHER CRIME that the FAMILY COURTS have FAILED ME! My EX still owes me way over $10,000. My EX signed School Contracts and has not paid me 1 cent for them.....I've had Attorneys that knew about the school contracts and NEVER went after him to repay me.
THERE needs to be JUSTICE! The FAMILY LAWS NEED TO BE CHANGED!
ABUSERS NEED TO BE PUNISHED.

To make matters worse from all the Emotional, Verbal and Mental ABUSED I have been through, I was diagnosed in January 2010 with Lymphoma, Vertigo and I have a Heart condition.
I can not afford an Attorney anymore. The Attorneys I had ABUSED ME,took advantage of me Financially,, price gauged, insulted me, lied to me due to their Unethical behavior of the BAR Ethical Laws that Govern them.
I've had 6 Attorneys in 16 years and almost non have helped me with my case.....1 charged me over $36,000.00 (Schwartz), another 1 over $16,000.00(Fortunato).......2 Took about $3,000.00 and DID Nothing to help me(Ensign/ Costantino.....Ensign threw me out of her office when I REQUESTED Documents she told me she was working on. Ensign was written up by the Florida Bar. I've spent over $100,000.00 in Attorneys fees and MY case is still Pending in the courts.

The Child Support Agency needs to be investigated too.....MY ex only had to pay me $300.00 (Health Insurance Included) a month for 2 kids from 1996 til 2001..This is POVERTY LEVEL CHILD SUPPORT.....Foster Parents get more $$$ then I did.......Then an additional $300.00 more per month, plus $100.00 for the arreages he owed me (Owed me $8,400.00)....What's wrong with this picture! 

He even STOLE DJ equipment and over 300 record albums and a Computer Tower from my house when he left. Did I call the police on HIM. NO....Maybe I should have.
He was even paid off about $48,000.00 when we got divorced....Wasn't even his $$$$$.
 Divorce decree  of Child Support was $300.00 for 2 3 yrs olds with Health Insurance included.....POVERTY. Judge Linda Vitale.......Let's see YOU live off $300.00 a month for 2 kids.....JUDGE!






Guess what he did....He loaned his friend Scott Lombardi (RE Agent with ReMax I believe) $25,000.00 and he didn't pay me the child support ordered by the court January 1, 1996.....SO, I had to garnish his wages in March 1996. He didnt pay me for 2 months, so when he did finally pay me , the Check came from his grandmother's account....OMG.

In 1994, when we seperated, Toby told the kids I wanted the divorce and that I didn't love him anymore. YOU don't get the kids involved PERIOD......

When he got married to Jill in 2000. He told the kids they would be in the wedding....He told me to give him clothes for the kids to wear for the wedding. I did not. I said this is your wedding and you want the kids in the wedding , YOU go out and buy them clothes.
He then told the kids they were not going to be in the wedding because I would not give him clothes for them. SO, guess what....... WHO did the kids take out their anger to because of their DAD's brainwashing the kids against me....THEY( Kids) took their anger out on ME!


He wanted the kids B'nai Mitzvahed.....Came to the Service.....Didn't come to reception....I offered to even pay..... HE NEVER paid for HEBREW SCHOOL!.


His nephew had a Bar Mitzvah.....He had gotten the clothes for the kids and all.....HE had a fight with his son over playing baseball for the season.....SO....HE NEVER took the kids to their cousin's Bar Mitzvah....Told the kids it was all my fault...NOT MINE!


Toby and his EX-Boss ( Brother in law) had a fight at Mindee(Toby's Sister) and Tom's house after their Dad's funeral....Jill called Mindee a name etc....Then Toby and Tom went after each other....OVER who was going to take care of Dad's business, etc. SEE JILL sticking her 2 cents in when it's non of her biz......OH....Did I mention how my X.....Worked for Tom.....Didn't claim income to Child Support for about a year.....YOU see Mindee told me about it on a conversation we had that summer....Then I realized Toby was Conning the system.......Of Course he was paid cash..........YOU see though I have documents that show there was $100,000.00 in the Business my EX was working in .
Toby's other brother Mickey and Mindee were working with him too. 


Toby barely told the Child Support agency where he lived or worked. Then the Child Support Agency wanted me to go after him.....I said excuse me......YOU know he's breaking the law but you want me to go after him....SO then he can go and tell the KIDS ...MOMMY put me in JAIL....SO they could HATE me for putting their DAD in Jail....I said. NO WAY.....SEE my kids don't know over 90% of what was going on....I left them out.....I would NOT get them involved unless it was for them to stick up for themselves or to clean up after ALL THE LIES their DAD or JILL told them. 


ATTORNEYS: RAE EILLEN CHOROWSKI
JAY ARTHUR SCHWARTZ 
MELODY RIDGLEY FORTUNATO 

LYNNETTE ANN ENSIGN Tel. 954-499-7979
MICHAEL J. CONSTANTINO
CATHERINE ZIPPAY-GAL
Jill Epstein Parnes-Secretary use to work at  
Bressler, Amery & Ross, PC.....


Worked at Ackerman, Senterfitt.....Heard Jill got a new job!     



BROWARD COUNTY JUDGE-
ARTHUR BIRKEN-FAMILY-Seventeenth Circuit!

PLEASE READ THE FOLLOWING DOCUMENT THAT MY EX-WRITE BACK ON 1986....SAD HE DIDN'T LIVE UP TO IT!


WHAT WIFE ALLOWS A BROTHER IN LAW TO LIVE IN OUR HOME FOR A YEAR OR MORE AND NEVER PAY RENT......LIVED OFF US......THAT'S A GOOD EX-WIFE DON'T YOU THINK.  MICKEY, SO WHERE IS THE DJ EQUIPMENT THAT TOBY TOLE FROM THE HOUSE....DO YOU STILL HAVE IT?

I helped Toby's Parents out with RENT for 2 months....Paid their rent  $1,600.00.....Toby, Mickey, Stanley swore I would get the $$$ back......HAVE YOU seen it....?   I SURE HAVEN'T...

TO BE CONTINUED!  STAY TUNED!


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